Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Cheaters.

News broke out today like a brush fire of the girl from Twilight, Kristen Stewart, cheated on her boyfriend with some guy (you can get the details here http://perezhilton.com/category/kristen-stewart?from=starseeker_top#.UBA6V6Ab0dU ).  Now I could care less about these two individuals, but I do care about the issue on cheating for many reasons. 



I was cheated on about three years ago by the person I considered "the love of my life"  for many reasons I can only imagine.  My world at that time revolved around this person.  I would have given my life to this person because in all honesty, I believed in love, in marriage, and the ability for two people to maintain this relationship through the ends of time.  I know, very retarded.  But I grew up with parents who are still married and on some level, love each other very much and respect each other.  It may not be passionate lust-love, but love worth fighting for nonetheless.  And I believed in that.  I hoped with this person that one day I would have that same love that my parents share for each other.  Seven fucking years I spent nurturing, manifesting, and growing this love to ensure that I would have this life my parents had too.  But it all crumbled on at August day when the love of my life broke up with me.  Later he admitted that he had met someone else, and that person was my scuba instructor.  I will beat the shit out of her if I ever find her.  But back to the story.  Now I knew this girl for about 6 months and so did he.  He worked with her because his job was advertising for this company through facebook.  So he knew that he was drawn to her, and later he moved in with  her just before I left Roatan, Honduras.  Some of you might be thinking a coincidence, but fuck no, this was all planned and I was there for their amusement.

Now I am heading to law school ( I CAN'T STRESS THAT ENOUGH!) and from what I have heard the girl is working in Mexico and is with-child.  My ex is currently in Roatan trying to find a white girl to move him back to the US (HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!).  But the point is this: cheating happens every single day and for many reasons.  And it comes to show that this institutionalized belief of relationships, marriages, a "happily ever after" is all bullshit.  We are shown to believe that we will find our soul mate, and that person will be perfect just for us.  But that is a farce.  It is an antiquated belief that still exists in the 21st century for the likes of corporations making money off love and marriage.  Furthermore, we live in a world where women are equal to men, women can take care of themselves, and both sexes have access to unlimited ways of finding companions.  So what's the fucking point with sticking with one person for the rest of your life, or for that matter, cheating?  Staying with one person and fucking another...is that really necessary?  How about telling that person you want to be with that you will also want to be with others because you like being a slut?  By the way, there is nothing wrong with being a slut; it's just a lifestyle.  But my point is this.  I think we are now in an age where cheating is irrelevant.  People should have the balls to just be by themselves and fuck whomever they want without having to worry about other people's feelings.

But stupid people won't listen.  They will continue to be in relationships, marry each other, and cheat on each other because the indoctrination and continued success of the relationship industry needs stupid people to make these stupid mistakes so that they can make a few billion each year.

Don't even get me started on baby-making.  

For more on these ideas, please listen to The Tom Leykis Show.  He is a father to the belief of the failing marriage system and preaches his beliefs on his online show, which is hilarious, smart, and completely controversial.  I absolutely love it. 


His show can be found at http://www.blowmeuptom.com/ 

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